Internet stallking/harrasing
First of all, sorry that I have to write in English. (but please feel free to reply me in Danish I can read and understand Danish quite well).
I have some questions and I would like to ask for your suggestions. But before that I have to give some information, so you know what this is all about. I will keep it short, I promise.
About 2 years ago, I have a profile on an internet community/website. It’s a community between Thai people and Non Thai. (I’m Thai, btw). I was an active member on the community; I posted on forums and so on.
During that time, there was a man who appeared to be very smart. He and I exchanged some ideas and discussed about many things mostly on the forums. I never chatted with him, we never met but he and I exchanged some emails, nothing romantic going on. It was simply friendly talk. Until some time later I got tired of being on the internet, so I deleted my profile from the community (that was in 2007). One the same day as I deleted my profile, that person faked my profile. Pretended to be me, and contacted some of my friends at the community/website. I was pissed. I came back to the community/website with another profile, and that person got banned for life from the community/website.
After I posted about what happened with my profile on the website, I got to know that there was another woman on the community/website who has problem with that person. He has been harassing her for years.
Some months after (in late 2008), I got promote to be a moderator of the website. And I found out the guy had faked profiles more than 100 profiles on the website. After he knows that I was a moderator of the website. He keeps on faking profiles and time to time he contacts me, sending all kind of nasty messages.
About a month ago, he threatens me via a private message on the website. I reported him to the Danish police. I decided to send him an email, asking him to stop. He replied me that he doesn’t know anything about that. I know it was him but I didn’t want to get myself in a deep shit more than I already has. So, I sent him a message telling him that I don’t want to have anything to do with him. And I thought it’s over.
Then just yesterday, I have got a message from a blog company that I’m a member. (It’s paid blog) that someone post comment on my blog. I checked the comment, and I’m shocked. It was the guy, I believe, posting nasty message to me and he even faked to be Admin of the blog company. (I contacted the company, sending the message I got to them, they said no one from the company sent that message. Therefore, I’m sure that was HIM!!!).
I don’t want to copy what he has been written to me and post it here, because that will be like over 30000 words.
If you ask me, what does he want from me? I honestly don’t know. I did call him names on the website twice, the first time when I found out he nicked my profile (in 2007) , and the last time when he posted some nasty journal on the website (in 2007), the journal was related to me and my lady friend. Other than that, I never said any nasty words to him. I didn’t want to have anything to do with that person.
That person isn’t Danish. He lives somewhere in EU. He married to a Thai woman. (I’m also married. My husband is Danish). I told my husband about what happened but he doesn’t think it was a big deal. (Funny enough, my lady friend is also married and her husband said the same as my husband, it wasn’t a big deal).
You see, the problem is that guy has been harassing my friend and me for years, without any reason or any purpose (well, maybe for his own pleasure, I don’t know). And I won’t be surprise if my friend and I are not his only 2 victims. There must be some other women on the internet who have problem with him also. (I say this because I found he used women pictures on faked profiles on that website. And I won’t be surprise if my pictures will be on a dating website somewhere either.)
I was planning to ask some questions, but I forgot what I wanted to ask. So, I will just end it with thank you for reading this. I hope you understand what I was trying to say.
Your suggestions/comments/advises are highly appreciated.
I have some questions and I would like to ask for your suggestions. But before that I have to give some information, so you know what this is all about. I will keep it short, I promise.
About 2 years ago, I have a profile on an internet community/website. It’s a community between Thai people and Non Thai. (I’m Thai, btw). I was an active member on the community; I posted on forums and so on.
During that time, there was a man who appeared to be very smart. He and I exchanged some ideas and discussed about many things mostly on the forums. I never chatted with him, we never met but he and I exchanged some emails, nothing romantic going on. It was simply friendly talk. Until some time later I got tired of being on the internet, so I deleted my profile from the community (that was in 2007). One the same day as I deleted my profile, that person faked my profile. Pretended to be me, and contacted some of my friends at the community/website. I was pissed. I came back to the community/website with another profile, and that person got banned for life from the community/website.
After I posted about what happened with my profile on the website, I got to know that there was another woman on the community/website who has problem with that person. He has been harassing her for years.
Some months after (in late 2008), I got promote to be a moderator of the website. And I found out the guy had faked profiles more than 100 profiles on the website. After he knows that I was a moderator of the website. He keeps on faking profiles and time to time he contacts me, sending all kind of nasty messages.
About a month ago, he threatens me via a private message on the website. I reported him to the Danish police. I decided to send him an email, asking him to stop. He replied me that he doesn’t know anything about that. I know it was him but I didn’t want to get myself in a deep shit more than I already has. So, I sent him a message telling him that I don’t want to have anything to do with him. And I thought it’s over.
Then just yesterday, I have got a message from a blog company that I’m a member. (It’s paid blog) that someone post comment on my blog. I checked the comment, and I’m shocked. It was the guy, I believe, posting nasty message to me and he even faked to be Admin of the blog company. (I contacted the company, sending the message I got to them, they said no one from the company sent that message. Therefore, I’m sure that was HIM!!!).
I don’t want to copy what he has been written to me and post it here, because that will be like over 30000 words.
If you ask me, what does he want from me? I honestly don’t know. I did call him names on the website twice, the first time when I found out he nicked my profile (in 2007) , and the last time when he posted some nasty journal on the website (in 2007), the journal was related to me and my lady friend. Other than that, I never said any nasty words to him. I didn’t want to have anything to do with that person.
That person isn’t Danish. He lives somewhere in EU. He married to a Thai woman. (I’m also married. My husband is Danish). I told my husband about what happened but he doesn’t think it was a big deal. (Funny enough, my lady friend is also married and her husband said the same as my husband, it wasn’t a big deal).
You see, the problem is that guy has been harassing my friend and me for years, without any reason or any purpose (well, maybe for his own pleasure, I don’t know). And I won’t be surprise if my friend and I are not his only 2 victims. There must be some other women on the internet who have problem with him also. (I say this because I found he used women pictures on faked profiles on that website. And I won’t be surprise if my pictures will be on a dating website somewhere either.)
I was planning to ask some questions, but I forgot what I wanted to ask. So, I will just end it with thank you for reading this. I hope you understand what I was trying to say.
Your suggestions/comments/advises are highly appreciated.